on parasocial relationships: part 1: social media influencers

Social media figures use their victims in a way, they make them feel like there is a “Deep connection” …. while they remain unaware of your “Existence” …. 

I used to like to watch a favorite movie or listen to music…. And not feel guilty about it. But when it comes to wannabe influencers on social media…. I truly believe that there are people parading themselves on there, with inflated egos. Who make mountains out of molehills, and create this “negative vibe” and “negative energy” that once they’ve crossed that line, there is no turning back so they just keep pushing forward, and the more time they spend inflating their own ego versus not producing any actual work to back up their own stupid claims….. 

It’s like…once they have crossed that line, there’s no turning back. Any D-List artist in the late 80’s-early 90’s (not living on social media) who didn’t produce any real solid material, who let’s say, had an over –inflated ego. Would have said “Hey its time to retire” and no one would have thought differently, or less of you for doing that and thanked you at least for being honest about it. 

Now you have all these mid-level influencers who claim to be fashionistas and know their shit. Social media personalities, that have over-inflated egos. I don’t even understand what they’re doing anymore…I would settle for less of an ego trip and be satisfied with someone who had less of an ego problem, more humanity. More humanistic features, attributes, even a more humanistic speech or language… and definitely less of a social media lifestyle. 

You will get nothing from it, absolutely nothing in return. You are going online just to make yourself meet sad people.  

Maybe not “you” specifically. 

There are people who help inflate these egos, and don’t get bothered at all. This is not a new concept, and it always amazes me to hear the f***heads drooling and calling me out saying I am a secret fan of something or someone, I’m really not. I never have been. (I’m not going to explain myself.) These are people who still think they have a personality…. we’ll call them the generation of neon-hipsters-turned-social media influencers and self-proclaimed fashionistas of the last decade……twenty-something-yr-olds going to uber-trendy concerts and then moved on to “looney-bin-fashion shows”……a.k.a. They are all f***ed in the head, royally f***ed. 

I don’t like the feeling of being on social media, I don’t like it when people look at me the wrong way. And I don’t like parasocial relationships. I don’t like it at all. It’s not worth it. This is not the sadness speaking; this is reality. They are a an extinct group, kind of like a big blob of neon-hipster-nothingness. No personality, they just exist to exist. To fight with people. They have no personality. And I think their faces froze from being chronically online…..it’s not pretty!  So what was I talking about before…Oh, there’s no one I really look up to anymore. I used to admire people for their music and movies, then the millennials who ruined social media ruined that for me.  They really are attention seekers. I mean, zero personality. (Their personality has been replaced with constant fighting, and hatred, and trollishness) 

Happier times, happier memories….of para-social relationships? Of being on social media?  

It doesn’t exist. Because social media is all a lie. 

And your heart will burn in hell (assuming you have one) guaranteed you don’t.  

❤️‍🔥 

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