Tag: Relationships

• ON PARASOCIAL RELATIONSHIPS: PART 2: TRAD LIFESTYLES

  This blog entry goes out to all the stupid A**holes a.k.a HUSBANDJAK. And the “Trad-wives” a.k.a wifejak/wojak. (A “tradwife” (traditional wife) is a modern woman embracing traditional gender roles, focusing on homemaking, childcare, and serving her husband, often sharing this lifestyle on social media with an aesthetic of 1950s domestic perfection, involving from-scratch cooking, immaculate homes, and a focus on family-centered living.)  …

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  January 29, 2026

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• on parasocial relationships: part 1: social media influencers

  Social media figures use their victims in a way, they make them feel like there is a “Deep connection” …. while they remain unaware of your “Existence” ….  I used to like to watch a favorite movie or listen to music…. And not feel guilty about it. But when it comes to wannabe influencers on social media…. I truly believe that there are people…

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  January 21, 2026

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• Don’t look back (feeling sad.) 

  My back is killing me right now, and I don’t have the right pillows for my back or even my head, it makes my neck feel very uncomfortable. I am trying to find the right pillows before It hurts me any longer. I felt so sad after looking at social media, tonight. This is a…

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  January 21, 2026

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• On Provocateurs, Boundaries, and Reclaiming My Attention 

  I haven’t logged in for a while.    Not because I forgot, and not because I’m “taking a break.” I went away on purpose —from different social media platforms, from the whole cycle that feeds on agitation. And the longer I stay out, the clearer the pattern becomes. Should I or should I not feed the trolls on my private life?? 😔 That question kept circling my…

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  December 22, 2025

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