Tag: Social Media
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ON PARASOCIAL RELATIONSHIPS: PART 2: TRAD LIFESTYLES
This blog entry goes out to all the stupid A**holes a.k.a HUSBANDJAK. And the “Trad-wives” a.k.a wifejak/wojak. (A “tradwife” (traditional wife) is a modern woman embracing traditional gender roles, focusing on homemaking, childcare, and serving her husband, often sharing this lifestyle on social media with an aesthetic of 1950s domestic perfection, involving from-scratch cooking, immaculate homes, and a focus on family-centered living.) …
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Go away tricky trolls.
⚔️ A guide for banishing trolls ⚔️ 😈Trolls, you are not welcome here.👿 This is not your enchanted forest, not your troll hut. If you arrive with mockery, you will be revoked by clarity. If you arrive with cruelty, you will be dissected into grotesque allegory. If you arrive with an ill temperament, you will be thwarted and sent back to trolldome. Every distraction, every falsehood, every attack is putrefied. Your intrusion will be transformed into a troll myth—…
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on parasocial relationships: part 1: social media influencers
Social media figures use their victims in a way, they make them feel like there is a “Deep connection” …. while they remain unaware of your “Existence” …. I used to like to watch a favorite movie or listen to music…. And not feel guilty about it. But when it comes to wannabe influencers on social media…. I truly believe that there are people…
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Almost finished with editing my manuscript.
I am feeling distracted tonight. What do you do if you know you need to finish your work, but all these other thoughts keep racing through your mind. What have the trolls been up to? What have they said or done this time? They are not my responsibility so why should I care what they say or do? They have this medieval aura…
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Writing without distractions.
I have finished editing chapters 1-4. Now I need to add that new scene for chapter 5. I will work on chapter 5, then add the new scene for chapter 13. And check for grammar in chapters 5-15. Not too much work. Without any distractions. No exceptions. Afternoon Routine: Coffee (with creamer)✅ Lunch✅ Workspace clean✅ Comfortable Boots on (3inch Heeled)✅ Bright…
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Still working on new scenes for my novel.
I hope of one day being able to hold my book in my hands, an actual printed copy. I have worked and worked and worked. And my perfectionism has scared some who didn’t understand what I was working on, because I shut myself off from the world. I have never really completed anything this valuable in my life. I hope that people will…
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On Provocateurs, Boundaries, and Reclaiming My Attention
I haven’t logged in for a while. Not because I forgot, and not because I’m “taking a break.” I went away on purpose —from different social media platforms, from the whole cycle that feeds on agitation. And the longer I stay out, the clearer the pattern becomes. Should I or should I not feed the trolls on my private life?? 😔 That question kept circling my…
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