Tag: Life

• ON PARASOCIAL RELATIONSHIPS: PART 2: TRAD LIFESTYLES

  This blog entry goes out to all the stupid A**holes a.k.a HUSBANDJAK. And the “Trad-wives” a.k.a wifejak/wojak. (A “tradwife” (traditional wife) is a modern woman embracing traditional gender roles, focusing on homemaking, childcare, and serving her husband, often sharing this lifestyle on social media with an aesthetic of 1950s domestic perfection, involving from-scratch cooking, immaculate homes, and a focus on family-centered living.)  …

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  January 29, 2026

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• on parasocial relationships: part 1: social media influencers

  Social media figures use their victims in a way, they make them feel like there is a “Deep connection” …. while they remain unaware of your “Existence” ….  I used to like to watch a favorite movie or listen to music…. And not feel guilty about it. But when it comes to wannabe influencers on social media…. I truly believe that there are people…

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  January 21, 2026

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• Don’t look back (feeling sad.) 

  My back is killing me right now, and I don’t have the right pillows for my back or even my head, it makes my neck feel very uncomfortable. I am trying to find the right pillows before It hurts me any longer. I felt so sad after looking at social media, tonight. This is a…

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  January 21, 2026

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• Almost finished with editing my manuscript. 

  I am feeling distracted tonight.  What do you do if you know you need to finish your work, but all these other thoughts keep racing through your mind. What have the trolls been up to? What have they said or done this time? They are not my responsibility so why should I care what they say or do? They have this medieval aura…

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  January 21, 2026

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• NOT LOOKING FOR A “MANAGER.” 

  What I did today. What I’m doing tonight:  I have been working on a new scene for book 3: chapter 4. (That was unexpected.)  So far, there are two chapters that need more “Scene revision” That being…chapter 5 and chapter 13. I am trying to get to those chapters… I am trying to finish chapter 4 right now.   I don’t like being…

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  January 19, 2026

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• It’s the podcaster’s fault.

  I was wondering today, what would it take for someone to repost my posts and help get my blog noticed by people who want to … I don’t even know. People who are interested in my writing?  I have been in bed resting, Recuperating for 3 ½ weeks. Suddenly today I feel, a little better. But I have been in a lot of pain.…

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  January 18, 2026

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• On Provocateurs, Boundaries, and Reclaiming My Attention 

  I haven’t logged in for a while.    Not because I forgot, and not because I’m “taking a break.” I went away on purpose —from different social media platforms, from the whole cycle that feeds on agitation. And the longer I stay out, the clearer the pattern becomes. Should I or should I not feed the trolls on my private life?? 😔 That question kept circling my…

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  December 22, 2025

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