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• ON PARASOCIAL RELATIONSHIPS: PART 2: TRAD LIFESTYLES

  This blog entry goes out to all the stupid A**holes a.k.a HUSBANDJAK. And the “Trad-wives” a.k.a wifejak/wojak. (A “tradwife” (traditional wife) is a modern woman embracing traditional gender roles, focusing on homemaking, childcare, and serving her husband, often sharing this lifestyle on social media with an aesthetic of 1950s domestic perfection, involving from-scratch cooking, immaculate homes, and a focus on family-centered living.)  …

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  January 29, 2026

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• My tips for writing a novel: Part 1: Managing your personal life, and personal space. 

  By ©Demonia If you want to get it done fast. (Don’t ask me how long I’ve been working on mine.)  Please put aside everything and focus only on your novel.  Even if that means not “going out” or spending time with friends, family, etc.  Turn off (the sound) on all cell phones, turn off the TVs or anything that will cause loud sounds. Lock your door, don’t answer it for…

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  January 22, 2026

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• on parasocial relationships: part 1: social media influencers

  Social media figures use their victims in a way, they make them feel like there is a “Deep connection” …. while they remain unaware of your “Existence” ….  I used to like to watch a favorite movie or listen to music…. And not feel guilty about it. But when it comes to wannabe influencers on social media…. I truly believe that there are people…

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  January 21, 2026

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• Almost finished with editing my manuscript. 

  I am feeling distracted tonight.  What do you do if you know you need to finish your work, but all these other thoughts keep racing through your mind. What have the trolls been up to? What have they said or done this time? They are not my responsibility so why should I care what they say or do? They have this medieval aura…

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  January 21, 2026

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• On Provocateurs, Boundaries, and Reclaiming My Attention 

  I haven’t logged in for a while.    Not because I forgot, and not because I’m “taking a break.” I went away on purpose —from different social media platforms, from the whole cycle that feeds on agitation. And the longer I stay out, the clearer the pattern becomes. Should I or should I not feed the trolls on my private life?? 😔 That question kept circling my…

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  December 22, 2025

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